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افتراضي Acquaintance

Acquaintance \ The speech of Muqtada Al-Sayyid Muhammad Al-Sadr in his account in Twitter on 5/4/2021
In the name of Allah
Acquaintance
The Acquaintance between two persons has special etiquettes whether according to Sharia or according to the social right traditions, it shouldn't trespass these public and private traditions because they have come for regulation not for harm and restriction, the acquaintance is praised matter according to Allah's speech: (O mankind We have indeed created you from one man and one woman, and have made you into various nations and tribes so that you may know one another, indeed the more honorable among you in the sight of Allah is one who is more pious among you; indeed Allah is All Knowing All Aware), but it is conditional with never trespass on the style and desirable etiquette as the case of all commands and forbidden matters and religious and life public deeds. Anything which deviates from its limits may turn from duty or desirable to forbidden or undesirable as in the food for a necessity whereas it is duty but overeating is undesirable and if it is harmful then it is forbidden and so. Yes, we had highlighted previously on the acquaintance which was mentioned in the verse above, I mean nations and tribes, but we shouldn't be inattentive on the second part, we illustrate it that is (We have created you from one man and one woman) till His speech (that you may know one another) and from it we conclude the permissibility of acquaintance between man and woman but with its conditions as they express. It is known that this matter fell between jaws of strictness and dissolution and it is refused at us, we don't accept strictness nor dissolution but moderation is required in this matter. The clearest Qur'anic and sharia example on our subject is the speech of Allah: (And there is no sin on you if you propose marriage to women while they are hidden from your view, or hide it in your hearts; Allah knows that will now remember them, but do not make secret pacts with women except by decent words recognized by Islamic law; and do not consummate the marriage until the written command reaches its completion; know well that Allah knows what is in your hearts, therefore fear Him; and know well that Allah is Oft Forgiving, Most Forbearing), from this verse we can conclude some matters concerning the relationship between woman and man which as we said: they fell between jaws of strictness and dissolution, when the strict saw in the road man and woman, he will doubt in them but the dissolute person will unleash for this sensitive relationship with openness far from Sharia, mind and tradition. Yes, the relationship between woman and man differs from relationship between the two women or between the two men, whereas the love prevails on the relationship between man and woman and it is very sensitive matter but Sharia and in this verse had legislated many laws in their relationship, it means man and woman and from these laws
First: They should be engaged or they desire in that especially Sharia authorized them to get detailed acquaintance to build their future life on happiness, faith and stability
Second: Not dating secretly, it means dating between them should be through two ways
The first way: Taking permission from parents because they are wise and have more knowledge in life's matters, don't think that return to them refers to something bad in those who are engaged or for any other reason therefore some try to spread independence from parents
The second way: It should be under the sight of parents or in public places with abiding by sharia laws which never lead them to undesirable end especially engagement may be introduction for marriage which may happen in the future or don't happen
The honorable verse authorized the secret dating if it is by decent words recognized by Islamic law free from courtship and illegal touching and the like. Yes, sharia authorized for those who are engaged for marriage to do some matters for acquaintance and meaningful dialogue in order to build future family but it forbade sexual contact between them, it should be after signing legal contract of marriage, the consent on this contact between them isn't enough whence it may be for lustful desires which it will be gone soon then the two parties will regret especially the regret of woman and that is clear. Yes, marriage and making family are matter which concerns them but it doesn't mean to separate from the family and never coordinate with them as some try to spread an engagement far from the family and relatives whereas even it will make new family but it will result the separation of families from each other. It is polite matter that the lovers ask the permission of their parents in engagement and marriage because parents have the favor in taking care of them from childhood till the moment of engagement. One matter remains, the absurd relationship between man and woman whereas its results are often negative if it isn't conditional with specific work or for necessity or for public benefit or the like. The reader shouldn't understand from this speech that relationship between man and woman is a relationship which concerns the legal marriage or suspicious relationship only, but it is more general than that whereas the woman who abides by Sharia laws has the right to work and appear as long as she is abiding by sharia laws because her abiding doesn't prevent her from doing her practical, scientific and life role and it doesn't mean to stay away from man if there is public interest in that, not through abnormal desires and tendencies, if she trusted in herself but she shouldn't trust in men a complete trust or blind trust because many men look at women from side of beauty and temptation God forbids especially in our Eastern societies unfortunately. Depriving woman of her general rights with her abiding is ugly matter and has negative results on her and on the society because it will result her aversion from society and sharia in sometimes then keeping her away will not be reformative to the society but there are many future evils in it. The woman is an active member in the society that her positive and legal energies should appear to benefit herself and the others in what satisfy Allah, if she doesn't trust in herself or in the other then it would be better to stay away from overmixing as the man who doesn't trust himself from the forbidden things if he overmixed, it doesn't concern women only
Allah is the source of each success
O Allah bestows upon our women with modesty and chastity and upon our men with prudence and wisdom
The slave of Allah
Muqtada Al-Sadr

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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